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Closets are not just repositories of fictions. When it comes to sexuality, people keep many secrets about how much they are having, for example. Americans report using far more condoms than are sold every year. You might therefore think this means they are just saying they use condoms more often during sex than they actually do. The evidence suggests they also exaggerate how often they are having sex embarking upon. About 11% of women between the ages of 15 and 44 say they are sexually active , not currently pregnant, and not using contraception. Even with relatively conservative hypothesis about how many times they are having sex, scientists would expect 10% of them to become pregnant every month. But this would already be more than the total number of pregnancies in the United States( which is one in 113 women of childbearing age ).
In our sex-obsessed culture it can be hard to admit that you are just not having that much. But if youre looking for understanding or advice, you have, once again, an incentive to tell Google. On Google, there are 16 times more complaints about a spouse not wanting sex than about a married partner not being willing to talk. There are five-and-a-half times more complaints about an unmarried partner not wanting sex than an unmarried partner refusing to text back.
And Google searches suggest a surprising culprit for many of these sexless relationships. There are twice as many complaints that a boyfriend wont have sex than that a girlfriend wont have sex. By far, the number 1 search objection about a boyfriend is My boyfriend wont have sex with me.( Google searches are not broken down by gender, but since the previous analysis said that 95% of men are straight, we are going to be able guess that not many boyfriend searches are coming from men .)
How should we interpret this? Does this really imply that boyfriends withhold sexuality more than girlfriends? Not necessarily. As mentioned earlier, Google searches can be biased in favour of stuff people are uptight talking about. Men may feel more comfortable telling their friends about their girlfriends lack of sexual interest than women are telling their friends about their boyfriends. Still, even if the Google data does not indicate that boyfriends are actually twice as likely to avoid sexuality as girlfriends, it does suggest that boyfriends avoiding sexuality is more common than people let on.
Google data also suggests a reason people may be avoiding sex so frequently: enormous nervousnes, with much of it misplaced. Start with mens anxieties. It isnt news that humen worry about how well endowed they are, but the degree of this fret is rather profound. Men Google more questions about their sexual organ than any other body portion: more than about their lungs, liver, feet, ears , nose, throat, and brain blended. Men conduct more searches for how to make their penises bigger than how to tune a guitar, make an omelette, or change a tyre. Mens top Googled concern about steroids isnt whether they may injury their health but whether taking them might diminish the size of their penis. Mens top Googled question related to how their body or intellect would change as they aged was whether their penis would get smaller.
Do women care about penis size? Rarely, according to Google searches. For every search females make about a partners phallus, men attain roughly 170 searches about their own. True, on the rare occasions females do express concerns about a partners penis, it is frequently about its sizing, but not necessarily that its small. More than 40% of complaints about a partners penis size say that its too big. Pain is the most Googled word used in searches with the phrase ___ during sexuality. Yet merely 1% of mens searches looking to change their penis sizing are trying information on how to make it smaller.
Mens second most common sexuality question is how to making such a sex encounters longer. Once again, the insecurities of men do not appear to match such concerns of women. There are roughly the same number of searches asking how to make a boyfriend climax more quickly as climax more slowly. In fact, the most common concern women have related to a boyfriends orgasm isnt about when it happened but why it isnt happening at all.
We dont often talk about body image issues when it comes to men. And while its true that overall interest in personal appearance skeweds female, its not as lopsided as stereotypes would suggest. According to my analysis of Google AdWords, which measures the websites people visit, interest in beauty and fitness is 42% male, weight loss is 33% male, and cosmetic surgery is 39% male. Among all searches with how to related to breasts, about 20% ask how to get rid of man breasts.
The Truth About Hate and Prejudice
Sex and romance are barely the only topics shawl in disgrace and, therefore , not the only topics about which people keep secrets. Many people are, for the right reasons, inclined to keep their racisms to themselves. I suppose you could call it progress that many people today feel they will be judged if they admit they judge other people based on their ethnicity, sex orientation, or religion. But many Americans still do. You can see this on Google, where users sometimes ask questions such as Why are black people rude? or Why are Jews evil?
A few patterns among these stereotypes stand out. For example, African Americans are the only group that faces a rude stereotype. Virtually every group is a victim of a stupid stereotype; the only two that are not: Jews and Muslims. The evil stereotype is applied to Jews, Muslims, and lesbian people but not black people, Mexicans, Asians, and Christians. Muslims are the only group stereotyped as terrorists. When a Muslim American plays into this stereotype, the response can be instantaneous and vicious. Google search data can give us a minute-by-minute peek into such eruptions of hate-fuelled rage.
Consider what happened shortly after the mass shooting in
San Bernardino, California, on 2 December, 2015. That morning, Rizwan Farook and Tashfeen Malik entered a meeting of Farooks co-workers armed with semi-automatic pistols and semi-automatic rifles and murdered 14 people. That evening, minutes after the media first reported one of the shooters Muslim-sounding names, a disturbing number of Californians decided what they wanted to do with Muslims: kill them. The top Google search in California with the word Muslims in it at the time was kill Muslims. And overall, Americans searched for the phrase kill Muslims with about the same frequency that they searched for martini recipe and migraine symptoms.
In the days following the San Bernardino attack, for every American concerned with Islamophobia, another was searching for kill Muslims. While hate searches were approximately 20% of all searches about Muslims before the attack, more than half of all search volume about Muslims became hateful in the hours that followed it. And this minute-by-minute search data can tell us how difficult it can be to calm this rage.
Four days after the shooting, President Obama dedicated a prime-time address to the country. He wanted to reassure Americans that the government could both stop terrorism and, perhaps more importantly, quiet this dangerous Islamophobia. Obama appealed to our better angels, speaking of the importance of inclusion and tolerance. The rhetoric was powerful and moving. The
for[ warning] against allowing fear to cloud our decision. The Los Angeles Times praised Obama . The New York Times called the speech both tough and calming website ThinkProgress praised it as a necessary tool of good governance, geared towards saving the lives of Muslim Americans. Obamas speech, in other words, was judged a major success. But was it?
Google search data indicates otherwise. Together with Evan Soltas, then at Princeton, I examined the data. In his speech, the president said: It is the responsibility of all Americans of every religion to reject discrimination. But searches calling Muslims terrorists, bad, violent, and evil doubled during and shortly after the speech. President Obama also said: It is our responsibility to repudiate religious exams on who we acknowledge into this country. But negative searches about Syrian refugees, a mostly Muslim group then desperately go looking for a safe haven, rose 60%, while searches asking how to help Syrian refugees dropped 35%. Obama asked Americans to not forget that freedom is more powerful than anxiety. Yet searches for kill Muslims tripled during his speech. In fact, just about every negative search we could think to exam regarding Muslims shot up during and after Obamas speech, and just about every positive search we could think to exam declined.
In other words, Obama seemed to say all the right things. But new data from the internet, offering digital truth serum, suggested that the speech actually backfired in its main objectives. Instead of pacifying the angry mob, as everybody thought he was doing, the internet data tells us that Obama actually inflamed it. Sometimes we need internet data to correct our instinct to pat ourselves on the back.
So what should Obama have said to quell this particular kind of hatred currently so virulent in America? Well circle back to that later. First were going to take a look at an age-old vein of racism in the United States, the form of loathe that in fact stands out above the remainder, the one that has been the most destructive and the topic of the research that began this volume. In my work with Google search data, the single most telling fact I have found considering loathe on the internet is the popularity of the word nigger.
Either singular or in its plural form, the word is included in 7m American searches every year.( Again, the word used in rap sungs is almost always nigga , not nigger, so theres no significant impact from hip-hop lyrics to account for .) Searches for nigger jokes are 17 times more common than searches for kike jokes, gook jokes, spic jokes, chink jokes, and fag jokes blended. When are these searches most common? Whenever African Americans are in the news. Among the periods when such searches were highest was the immediate aftermath of
Hurricane Katrina in 2005, when television and newspapers presented images of desperate black people in New Orleans struggling for their survival. They also shot up during Obamas first election. And searches rose on average about 30% on Martin Luther King Jr Day.
The frightening ubiquity of this racial slur hurls into doubt some current understandings of racism. Any theory of racism has to explain a big puzzle in America. On the one hand, the overwhelming majority of black Americans think they suffer from prejudice and they have ample evidence of discrimination in police stops, scheduled interview, and jury decisions. On the other hand, very few white Americans will admit to being racist. The dominant explanation among political scientists recently has been that this is due, in big part, to widespread implicit prejudice. White Americans may mean well, this theory runs, but they have a subconscious bias, which influences their therapy of black Americans.
Academics fabricated an ingenious route to test for such a bias. It is called the implicit association test. The exams have consistently shown that it takes most people milliseconds longer to associate black faces with positive terms, such as good, than with negative terms, such as awful. For white faces, the specific characteristics is reversed. The extra day it takes is evidence of someones implicit racism a racism the person or persons may not even be aware of.
There is, though, an alternative explanation for the discrimination that African Americans feel and whites deny: hidden explicit racism. Suppose there is a reasonably widespread conscious racism of which people are very much aware but to which they wont confess surely not in a survey. Thats what the search data seems to be saying. There is nothing implicit about searching for nigger jokes. And its hard to imagine that Americans are Googling the word nigger with the same frequency as migraine and economist without explicit racism having a major impact on African Americans. Prior to the Google data, we didnt have a persuading measure of this virulent animus. Now we do. We are, therefore, in a position to see what it explains. It explains why Obamas vote totals in 2008 and 2012 were depressed in many regions. It also correlates with the black-white wage gap, as a team of economists recently reported. The areas that I had seen make the most racist searches underpay black people.
And then there is the phenomenon of Donald Trumps candidacy. When
Nate Silver, the polling guru, looked for the geographic variable that correlated most strongly with subsistence in the 2016 Republican primary for Trump, he found it in the map of racism I had developed. To be provocative and to promote more research in this area, let me are set forth the following hypothesi, ready to be tested by intellectuals across a range of fields. The primary rationale for discrimination against African Americans today is not the fact that the ones who agree to participate in lab experiments attain subconscious associations between negative words and black people; it is the fact that millions of white Americans continue to do things like search for nigger jokes.
The Truth About Girls
The discrimination black people regularly experience in the United States appears to be fuelled more widely by explicit, if concealed, aggression. But, for other groups, subconscious prejudice may have a most fundamental impact. For example, I was able to use Google searches to find evidence of implicit racism against another segment of the population: young girl. And who, might you ask, “wouldve been” harbouring bias against girls? Their parents.
Its scarcely surprising that parents of young children are often excited by the thought that their kids might be gifted. In fact, of all Google searches starting Is my two-year-old, the most common next word is gifted. But this question is not asked equally about boys and girls. Parents are two-and-a-half times more likely to ask Is my son gifted? than Is my daughter gifted? Parents present a similar bias when using other phrases related to intelligence that they may shy away from saying aloud, like Is my son a genius?
Are mothers picking up on legitimate differences between young girls and boys? Perhaps young sons are more likely than young girls to use big words or prove objective signs of giftedness? Nope. If anything, its the opposite. At young ages, girls have consistently been shown to have larger vocabularies and use more complex sentences. In American schools, girls are 9% more likely than boys to be in gifted programs. Despite all this, parents looking around the dinner table appear to see more gifted sons than daughters. In fact, on every search term related to intelligence I tested, including those indicating its absence, mothers were more likely to be inquiring about their sons rather than their daughters. There are also more searches for is my son behind or stupid than comparable searches for daughters. But searches with negative terms like behind and stupid are less specifically skewed toward sons than searches with positive terms, such as gifted or genius.
What then are mothers overruling fears regarding their daughters? Primarily, anything related to appearance. Consider questions about a childs weight. Mothers Google Is my daughter overweight? approximately twice as frequently as they Google Is my son overweight? Parents are about twice as likely to ask how to get their daughters to lose weight as they are to ask how to get their sons to do the same. Just as with giftedness, this gender bias is not grounded in reality. About 28% of daughters are overweight, while 35% of sons are. Even though scales measure more overweight sons than daughters, mothers consider or worry about overweight girls much more frequently than overweight sons. Mothers are also one-and-a-half times more likely to ask whether their daughter is beautiful than whether their son is handsome.
Liberal readers may imagine that these biases are more common in conservative parts of the country, but I didnt find any evidence of that. In fact, I did not find a significant relationship between any of these biases and the political or culture makeup of a state. It would seem this bias against girls is more widespread and deeply ingrained than wed care to believe.
Can We Handle the Truth?
I cant feign there isnt a darkness in some of this data. It has disclosed the continued existence of millions of closeted gay humen; widespread animus against African Americans; and an outbreak of violent Islamophobic rage that only got worse when the president appealed for tolerance. Not precisely cheery stuff. If people consistently tell us what they think we want to hear, we will generally be told things that are more comforting than the truth. Digital truth serum, on average, will show us that the world is worse than we have thought.
But there are at least three ways this knowledge can improve our lives. First, there can be convenience in knowing you are not alone in your insecurities and embarrassing behaviour. Google searches can help demonstrate you are not alone. When you were young, a teacher may have told you that if you have a question you are able to raise your hand and ask it, because if youre confounded, others are too. If you were anything like me, you ignored your educator and sat there mutely, afraid to open your mouth. Your questions were too dumb, you thought; everyone elses were more profound. The anonymous, aggregate Google data can tell us once and for all how right our teachers were. Plenty of basic, sub-profound questions lurk in other minds, too.
The second benefit of digital truth serum is that it alerts us to people who are suffering. The
Human Rights Campaign asks me to work with them in helping educate humen in certain nations about the possibility of coming out of the closet. They are looking to use the anonymous and aggregate Google search data to help them choose where best to target their resources.
The final and, I guess, most powerful value in this data is its ability to lead us from problems to answers. With more understanding, we might find ways to reduce the worlds supply of nasty attitudes. Lets return to Obamas speech about Islamophobia. Recall that every time he argued that people should respect Muslims more, the people he was trying to reach became more enraged. Google searches, however, reveal that there was one line that did trigger the type of response Obama might have wanted. He said: Muslim Americans are our friends and our neighbours, our co-workers, our sports heroes and, yes, they are our men and women in uniform, who are willing to die in defence of our country.
After this line, for the first time in more than a year, the top Googled noun after Muslim was not terrorists, radicals, or refugees. It was athletes, followed by soldiers. And, in fact, athletes maintained the top spot for a full day afterwards. When we lecture angry people, the search data implies that their ferocity can grow. But subtly provoking people curiosity, devoting new information, and offering new images of the group that is stoking their rage may turn their supposes in different, more positive directions.
Two months after that speech, Obama devoted another broadcasted speech on Islamophobia, this time at a mosque. Perhaps someone in the presidents office had read Soltass and my
Times column, which discussed what had worked and what hadnt, for the contents of this speech was noticeably different.
Obama spent little time insisting on the value of tolerance. Instead, he focused overwhelmingly on eliciting peoples curiosity and changing their perceptions of Muslim Americans. Many of the slaves from Africa were Muslim, Obama told us; Thomas Jefferson and John Adams had their own copies of the Koran; a Muslim American designed skyscrapers in Chicago. Obama again spoke of Muslim athletes and armed service members, but also talked of Muslim police officer and firefighters, teachers and doctors. And my analysis of the Google searches indicates this speech was more successful than the previous one. Many of the hateful, rageful searches against Muslims dropped in the hours afterwards.
There are other potential ways to use search data to learn what causes, or reduces, hate. For example, we might look at how racist searches change after a black quarterback is drafted in a city, or how sexist searches change after a woman is elected to office. Learning of our subconscious prejudices can also be useful. We might all make an extra great efforts to delight in little girls minds and demonstrate less concern with their appearance. Google search data and other wellsprings of truth on the internet dedicate us an unprecedented look into the darkest corners of the human rights subconsciou. This is at times, I admit, difficult to face. But it can also be empowering. We can use the data to fight the darkness. Collecting rich data on the worlds problems is the first step toward fixing them.
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The degree to which people are self-absorbed is pretty shocking: Seth Stephens-Davidowitz. Photo: Christopher Lane for the Observer
Whats your background ?
Id describe myself as a data scientist, but my PhD is in economics. When I was doing my PhD, in 2012, I detected this tool called Google Trends that tells you what people are searching, and where, and I became obsessed with it. I know that when people first consider Google data, they say Oh this is weird, this isnt perfect data, but I knew that perfect data didnt exist. The traditional data sets left a lot to be desired. What would your search records disclose about you ? They could definitely tell Im a hypochondriac because Im waking up in the middle of the night doing Google searches about my health. There are definitely things about me that you could figure out. When stimulating claims about a topic, its better to do it on aggregate, but I think you can figure out a lot, if not everything, about an individual by what theyre searching on Google. You ran at Google ? For about a year and a half. I was on the economics team and also the quantitative marketing team. Some was analysis of ad, which I get bored of, which is one of the reasons I stopped working there. Did working there give you an understanding that helped this book ? Yeah, I think it did. All this data Im talking about is public. But from gratifying the people who know more about this data than anyone in the world, Im much more confident that it means what I think it means. Does it change your view of human nature? Are we darker and stranger beasts than you realised ? Yeah. I guess I had a dark view of human nature embarking upon, and I suppose now its gotten even darker. I guess the degree to which people are self-absorbed is pretty shocking.
When Trump became president, all my friends said how anxious the latter are, they couldnt sleep because theyre so concerned about immigrants and the Muslim ban. But from the data you can see that in liberal areas of the country there wasnt a rise in nervousnes when Trump was elected. When people were waking up at 3am in a cold sweat, their searches were about their undertaking, their health, their relationship theyre not concerned about the Muslim ban or global warming.
Was the Google search data telling you that Trump was going to win ?
I did see that Trump was going to win. You watched clearly that African American turnout was going to be way down, because in cities with 95% black people there was a collapse in searches for voting info. That was a big reason Hillary Clinton did so much worse than the polls suggested. Whats next ? I want to keep on exploring this, whether in academia, journalism or more books. Its such an exciting region: what people are really like, how the world truly works. I may just research sex for the next few months. One thing Ive learned from this book, people are more interested in sex than I thought they were.
Interview by Killian Fox