Five Reasons Not To Observe Lent
Editor’s note : The following column originally appeared on Crosswalk.com .
Some years ago my fiancee( now wife) and I procured ourselves in a church full of people who observed Lent. With a bridal and honeymoon just a few months away, we had better plans.
We spent our extra money on a Caribbean cruise, while the spiritual pilgrim around us were freely dedicating their non-extra money to support persecuted Christians in Nigeria. I was, admittedly, on the Look Good Naked diet, renouncing sweets to the purposes of vanity. They were on the Good Friday diet, fasting from food to dwell more closely with Jesus Christ. I was feeding my cravings. They were confessing their sins. I was more obligated, but they were more free.
After the sheen of the cruise wore off, we decided to give Give a try the following year. But I was still motivated by self-improvement and a dread of missing out. Several years later, it has taken some trial-and-error for me to learn the heart of Lent. Along the way, here are five reasons Ive learned not to observe the season 😛 TAGEND
1. To slim your waistline .
Lent is not a season for weight loss. Yes, Lent involves a taming of the physical cravings. But the goal is to cultivate a spiritual hunger for God , not a slimmer physique.
If you turn Lent into a season of self-improvement, youll miss the greater vision of describing close to Jesus Christ and becoming like him. Besides, lenten fasts and fish Fridays are ineffective methods of losing weight — if thats your goal, its better to try the Whole 30 diet and workout three times a week.
2. To make God happy .
Sometimes I like to think I can control God, building him happy( or just less angry) simply by taking up the classic Lenten disciplines of prayer, fasting and generosity towards others.
At its heart, this is a “hunger strike” approach to God — going without food to get the attention of the prison warden.
Ive found out the hard way that God does not play along with that silly game. This will just leave us either proud or depressed: Why have we fasted, and you see it not?( Isaiah 58:3 ).
3. To cure an addiction .
While Lent is a great time to address the bodily cravings that have enslaved us, the spiritual journey will not remedy addictions.
If you feel powerless to break a dependence on alcohol, sexual activity, lottery, drugs, overeating or any other vice, seek professional assistance from a licensed counselor and an addiction recovery program in your church or community.
The spiritual benefits of find Lent with the person or persons of God will be a support and encouragement as you walk the road of recovery.
4. To showcase your spirituality or virtue .
Lets be honest: Most of us want to be admired for our virtue and recognized for our hard work. I know I do. But Lent is a time for us to attempt a greater reward: the bles of God the Father which is ours through the free gift of his Son Jesus.
Beware of practicing your righteousness before other people in order to be seen by them, Jesus cautioned, for then you will have no reward from your Father who is Heaven( Matthew 6:1 ).
Whether were fasting, praying more regularly or dedicating our fund to the poor, Jesus cautions us against showcasing it for likes. By all means try is supportive of the journey, just dont broadcast it for the ego-boost.
5. Because its the cool trend .
In all franknes, I fell hard for this one. I started practicing Lent because everyone at my new church observed the season. Increasing numbers of people from all walks of life are jumping on the Lent bandwagon. Maybe they are feeling far away from God and want a tangible way to reignite their spirituality.Or perhaps theyre feeling adrift in the modern world and want to reconnect with ancient practises.
In any case, dont join the herd out of a anxiety of missing out. The mystique will wear off faster than the dirt on your forehead from Ash Wednesday.
In the last 14 years of practicing Lent, my motives have been all over the place. But by Gods grace Ive come to see that Lent is not a forced march of works-righteousness, but rather a joyful pilgrimage, even better than a cruise.
Its been good medicine for my autonomy, self-indulgence, spiritual freedom and the painful split between what I know about God and what I experience of him. At the end of the day, however, Lent is about Jesus — becoming closer to him and becoming like him.
Aaron Damiani is the pastor of Immanuel Anglican Church in Chicagos Uptown neighborhood and the author of The Good of Dedicating Up: Discovering the Freedom of Lent. You can follow him on Twitter or Facebook.
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