“This Isnt the Body I Fell in Love With”: Husbands Response to Wifes Postpartum Body Will Bring You to Tears

"This Isnt the Body I Fell in Love With": Husbands Response to Wifes Postpartum Body Will Bring You to Tears

"This Isnt The Body I Fell In Love With": Husbands Response To Wifes Postpartum Body Will Bring You To Tears

From the countless publication encompass plastered with waif models to web ads oozing with the next revolutionary weight-loss hack, it’s hard to get away from the cultural narrative that screams “ skinny is BETTER . ” Reportedly, “a total of 75 percent of all American women endorse some unhealthy thinks, feelings or behaviours related to food or their bodies” … and those are just the ones who admitted to it in a survey .

If we’re being honest with ourselves, we’ve ALL probably had those believes at some point in our lives.

In this era of Photoshopped thighs and girls contracting every-eating-disorder-under-the-sun, it’s become quite the trend to champion body-positive thoughts and self-acceptance through social media.

You’ve all insured the memes.

“I’m so Flaw-some”…

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And “Imperfection is beauty”…

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Those quotes look all adorable when packaged in their Pinterest-perfect graphics, but to what degree do we actually believe them?

Particularly after having children, it’s not uncommon for a woman’s body confidence to plummet to an all-time low. Your tight abs are replaced with post-baby flab and your once supple scalp now bears the marks of tiger-striped stretching marks.

How’s that for feeling attractive ?… Particularly when it comes to pleasing the man who fell in love with the once-upon-a-Barbie-bod version of you.

Well for Mum on the Run, Laura Mazza, that’s something she’s ultimately starting to be at peace with after warring for years over her fading appears. But what’s most beautiful is her husband’s have responded to her insecurities about “the body he didn’t fall in love with.”

In a viral Facebook post, Laura bares her heart about the wonderful man who appears past her stretching marks and straight into the spirit of the mother who bore his newborns 😛 TAGEND

“This isn’t the body you fell in love with.”

I said to him.

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The body he fell in love with was toned, it had muscles, there were no stretch marks on my belly , none on my boobs , no intestine from muscle separation.

The body he fell in love with fit into tight jeans, could walk into a store and grab different sizes and walk out, knowing it fit.

This body now couldn’t shop at those stores, and mostly wears leggings. His body stayed the same, but mine changed in every way. It isn’t fair…

I stood in front of him, depleted and broken, the tears welled in my eyes, “this isn’t the body you fell in love with.” Then he said, “you’re right. It isn’t the body I fell in love with.

Instead it’s a body that grew “our childrens”, it fed our children, it comforted “our childrens”, it stimulated life. Your body is the one I fall in love with every day

I didn’t know what love was until I saw this body and found out all it could do, so thank you.”

Do not be ashamed of what you have, or what your mum body looks like, there’s plenty of time to give up cake in the future, for now, enjoy the moments you have, and enjoy the fact that you have made something that is worth every stretching mark and every dimple.

If you needed a reminder, this is it, this body you have now, its worth every bit of love and more.

Laura’s terms of encouragement are a powerful reminder that the body we have IS worth loving … And furthermore, it is NOT infused with the kind of beauty that lasts.

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.”~ Proverbs 31:30

Share this inspiring message with a woman who needs to hear these wise terms today. I know I did . [?]

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